Weight And Emotions
Many people are not totally comfortable with their body. Although most of their friends feel that they are crazy for trying to gain weight, but they would love to see more flesh on their waist and legs especially.
For this somebody suggested one of them weight gain drink. His problem is that he can eat all he wants. His body gets rid of it. I suppose this is referred to as a fast working metabolism.
Your body build is largely determined by heredity. In other words, you will tend to be built very similarly to your relatives. If they are tall and slim, you can certainly see the source of your own body type. Checking with your doctor is a reasonable start in beginning to discover how much or how little you can do about your weight. He or she can make sure that no underlying health problem is keeping you from gaining the pounds you desire.
Your doctor should then make sure you are eating a balanced diet or should refer you to a dietitian who can assess your eating habits. If you follow the Canada Food Guide, available as a one-page summary, you can stick on the refrigerator door you will be taking in the right balance of food groups and have all the nutrients you need to be healthy. No pills will help you. A thorough assessment of your diet and exercise pattern is needed to see if you can juggle them to produce the changes you want. Make a doctor's appointment soon. I'll say at the outset that I don't know what you should do. You can wait for him to make a move, but you are clearly upset and impatient. Or you can speak to him directly about your concerns. This is the mature approach, but it is difficult and scary, and fraught with the possibility that his shyness or confusion will make him withdraw. Sometimes enlisting a friend helps for advice or even as a conduit for information. Having said all that, I know that you are not relieved of your worries. What you are experiencing - at a young age - is the ecstasy and the agony of love. I don't want to wish the latter on you or anyone, but the former, especially when it is mutual, is one of those exquisite glories of life. The problem is that the two are sometimes associated. It could be that this childhood friend of yours will end up to be the ultimate man of your dreams, but chances are that he will merely be the first of a couple or more of your passions before you are ready to commit yourself. Keep cool.
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